
The beginning
The daughter I had been waiting for.
Remembering our Bella
August 20, 2014 — February 22, 2025
Her life must be remembered.
Before the questions, before the headlines, before everything that came afterward, there was Bella.
Music for Bella















“All that we love deeply becomes a part of us.”
Why I created this website
“She called me Babe.
I called her my Bella.”
I created this website to share the little girl I knew and loved—her laughter, her imagination, her determination, and the ordinary moments that meant everything to us.
My hope is that you will take the time to know Bella: a child with her own personality, wishes, and plans.
I also created this website because I have felt pressured to remain silent through threats, accusations, and intimidation. I cannot know every person’s intentions, but I know how those experiences affected me. I will not let fear take away my voice or my place in Bella’s story. I have the right to remember my daughter, speak about what I experienced, and place my account beside the records so people can examine both for themselves.
“My silence would not make the accusations true. My voice does not make my grief less real.”Read her story
Ten years of love

The daughter I had been waiting for.

My teammate, my storytelling partner, my little girl.

Drawings, stories, and ideas that were entirely her own.

Wishes, adventures, and another year of growing.
A life in moments
A life in photographs. A lifetime of love. A song for the little girl who called me Babe.
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Explore the photographsHer story, remembered
Her father’s words
Love, gratitude, grief, reflections, and the questions I still carry.
Read the lettersThe documented record
A chronology that distinguishes records, reported accounts, recollections, and unanswered questions.
Explore the timelineYour memories of Bella
A story, a photograph, a funny thing she said. Every memory holds a part of her life.
Share a memoryBella gets the last word
“It’s easy, Babe. Let me show you.”
Her voice. Her spirit. Always remembered.